When we first came across Ms. Ruby Day we were practically paralyzed by her beauty. Standing 5′7″ with amazing 36C breasts and a natural red hair, Ruby oozes nothing less of pure sex! She’s done a great job at harnessing her natural beauty and creating an amazing erotic portal based off all the things that makes her tick. As a fetish model, adult performer, photographer, burlesque dancer and dominatrix, Ruby has perfected the ideal recipe which blends her sexual encounters with personal fantasy for which the rest of the world can indulge in. You can find out more about Ruby at her site, Rubysdiary.com. To satisfy our curiosity to learn a bit more about Ms. Day, we went ahead and put together an interview which shed’s some light on the universe with which she exists.
SL: What is RubysDiary.com all about?
Ruby: RubysDiary.com is a diary of my sexual life. It’s my girlfriends, boyfriends, bedmate, couples, and one night stands. We laugh a lot and cum a lot, it’s the way sex should be. It’s not your American mainstream porn. It’s honest, opinionated, and unabashed. It is the true photo, video, and written diary of my life. I love sharing my life and I know you will love being apart of it.
SL: How are things going with the site right now? How much shooting are you doing for it?
Ruby: There is always something going on in my world and rarely is there a dull moment. The site is doing great and shooting is never ending. Any day or moment I have available I’m either in front of the camera performing and directing or behind the camera shooting. At the current time I have been keeping pretty busy between life, my submissives, and my slave. At any given moment there is tending to the website, Domination, discipline in order, new training, and even a bit of enjoying the fruits of life. I like to keep myself occupied. That’s how I keep myself from getting into to much trouble.
SL: What was going on in your life prior to taking the leap of faith into the world of erotica?
Ruby: It wasn’t much different than most people. I went to university and graduated with a BA in International Business, Economics and Finance with minors in Art and French. After graduation I took a job working corporate as a business analyst for a telecom company. I was miserable, I didn’t fit into the corporate world so I left and went to work for higher education dealing with federal grants for a sign language interpreter-training department. I loved the job but knew it wasn’t what I wanted to do with the rest of my life so I picked up and moved to Texas having no job and knowing no one I was determined to find a way to survive without returning to corporate. I was managing bands on the side spending half my time on the road touring with opening acts, shooting photography, and doing sound engineering. The other half of the time I was booking bands and producing albums when I was home. It was during this time that I took the opportunity to do some soul searching and when the searching had reached a point of clarity sexual expression/experimentation was on the top of the list.
SL: Were you always really in-tune with your sexual side growing up?
Ruby: Most definitely! I’ve been this way from day one, it’s just the way I was made. At the age of 13, I began studying human sexuality. The sexual aspect of human nature fascinated me. By the time I turned 16, I was full throttle into physically exploring my own sexuality but I thought “What’s the fun in stopping there?” So during my exploration I ended up finding myself pursuing sexual expression in almost every aspect of my life and that’s how RubysDiary.com came about.
SL: You started nude modeling in 2004 correct? How much time did you spend doing that before the inception of ‘Ruby’s Diary’ came about?
Ruby: I’ve been nude modeling off and on for several years before 2004. I was nude posing for artists long before a camera came into the picture. It was in 2004 that I did my first topless centerfold magazine shoot with a local photographer. From that point on my love affair with the camera began.
SL: When did you come to the realization that you needed to pursue a career in this department?
Ruby: My entire life has directed me to this path but it wasn’t until after college and working in corporate America that I took my interest seriously.
SL: You were nominated for a 2009 Web Starlet of the Year award which came to be a surprise when you found out.
Ruby: At the point that I found out about my nomination for ‘Web Starlet of the Year’ my website hadn’t even finished it’s second year of being up and live. So when the e-mail came through telling me I had been nominated it was certainly a surprise and an honor to be put amongst girls who have been performing for 8 plus years.
SL: You must have been thrown under the scope to some degree.
Ruby: Well yeah, it’s a big deal to be nominated by the industry so things haven’t exactly been quite the same since then.
SL: How much of your life is consumed by the site?
Ruby: When you’re doing something that you love and have a passion for it, then it becomes a daily part of your life.
SL: Do you find that your personal life completely mesh’s with the professional/ business aspect of what you’re doing?
Ruby: What I share on my site IS my personal life. So the two aspects of personal and professional have learned to work hand in hand.
SL: Have you had thoughts about pursuing work on a mainstream level regarding some of the bigger adult production companies?
Ruby: I am always willing to work with other productions on projects of interest.
SL: Are there any ideas or fantasies that you want to experiment with or areas that you haven’t pushed yourself further with up til now?
Ruby: Whatever my mood strikes that sounds good at that moment I’m game to try, that’s why my life is my fantasy. I find it has been a matter of having enough of the right people and a budget big enough to create the ideas because a lack of imagination is not the obstacle.
SL: What would you really like to accomplish this year when speaking of growth not only with the site but also for yourself as a performer?
Ruby: Like a parent does for a child, you always have aspirations of grander. The important thing is maintaining internal growth and being true to who I am. Growth as a performer is a never-ending discipline. There is always room for development and improvement. When the day comes that I don’t have anything further to push myself with or improve on then that will most certainly be a sad day indeed. Hopefully that isn’t in the cards for me.
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